Power of Gifts
The Power of Gifts in Making Peace
A Devotional on Reconciliation and Generosity
Monday October 13, 2025
“A gift opens the way and ushers the giver into the presence of the great.”
— Proverbs 18:16
“… ‘It’s all right,’ he said. ‘Don’t be afraid. Your God, the God of your father, has given you treasure in your sacks; I received your silver.’ Then he brought Simeon out to them.”
— Genesis 43:11–23
Conflict is inevitable in life, but how we handle it determines whether relationships are destroyed or restored. The story of Jacob and his sons reveals a powerful principle about reconciliation: sometimes, gifts pave the way for peace.
When Jacob’s sons prepared to return to Egypt for grain, fear gripped their hearts. They had been accused of being spies, their brother Simeon remained imprisoned, and now they faced the daunting task of bringing Benjamin—their father’s beloved youngest son.
Jacob, a man seasoned by decades of navigating complex relationships, understood human nature and the weight of hostility. His instruction was strategic and profound: carry gifts—”a little balm, a little honey, spices and myrrh, pistachio nuts and almonds” (Genesis 43:11).
Jacob knew that gifts possess a unique power: they soften hearts and open doors. When his sons arrived in Egypt with their offerings, something remarkable happened. Joseph’s steward received them warmly, invited them into Joseph’s house, and spoke words of peace: “Don’t be afraid” (Genesis 43:19–23).
The tension dissolved. The door to reconciliation swung open.
Proverbs 18:16 confirms this timeless truth: “A gift opens the way and ushers the giver into the presence of the great.”
A sincere gift communicates humility, goodwill, honor, and the desire for peace.
Questions to Consider:
- Is there someone you need to reconcile with—friend, colleague, or family member?
- What conflict or tension in your life needs a gesture of peace?
- Have you allowed pride to prevent you from extending an olive branch?
- What gift (act of kindness, gesture, or sacrifice) could open the door to restoration?
Action Steps
- Identify: Pray and write down 1–2 people with whom you need reconciliation.
- Strategize: Consider a meaningful gesture or gift that would honor them.
- Act: Extend your gift with a humble heart and, if appropriate, words of peace.
- Reflect: Journal about what happened and thank God for the courage to be a peacemaker.
Prayer Focus
Prayer Confession:
“I am a peacemaker, not a conflict keeper. I embrace the wisdom of generosity and choose reconciliation over resentment. My gifts and gestures will open doors that words alone cannot unlock.”
“Lord, give me wisdom to navigate strained relationships and humility to make the first move toward peace. Deliver me from pride and help me discern when generosity can break down walls.
Let my acts of kindness carry divine favor and disarm hostility. Open doors that have been closed because of conflict and prepare hearts to receive my peace offering.”
In Jesus’ Name I declare I am a carrier of peace and a builder of bridges. I refuse to let pride or offense keep me from reconciliation. Through wisdom, humility, and strategic generosity, I will open doors that have been closed. My gifts will usher me into places of favor, and my relationships will be marked by restoration, not resentment.
Anchor Confession (Declare Daily):
“My life is shaped by God’s faithful narrative. No temptation will overpower me, for God makes a way of escape. My story is one of victory, endurance, and divine destiny.”
BEST PRACTICES FOR SPIRIT-FILLED LIVING
- Pray in the Spirit daily (30–60 mins).
- Journal how God is rewriting your personal narratives.
- Speak out daily confessions of truth to shape your thoughts and actions.
